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Thursday, September 3, 2020

September 03, 2020

For this divorce is in the hands of the man

She said: If I were infallible, I would have divorced you 20 times. She and her husband used to talk about issues related to their married life, and in a moment things turned and turned into quarrels, yes, this is not 

the first time, but this time differs from its peers in the past !! She asked her husband for a divorce; This ignited his anger until he took a piece of paper from his pocket and wrote on it: (Yes, I am so-and-so, son of so-and-so, I assure, with all my mental powers, that I want my wife, and I do not want to abandon her. My wife forever ...) The husband put the paper in an envelope and handed it to his wife and left the house angry until she felt nothing. All this while the wife did not know what was written in the paper, and then she felt guilty for

hands of the man

 

committing this mistake and rushed to her request. The wife is in trouble now, where do you go? What do you say? How did the divorce take place? ... All these questions put her in a whirl and confusion about her matter, so what should she do? What happened and happened? The husband suddenly returned home, and quickly entered his room without speaking a word. His wife chased him and knocked on the door, and he answered her loudly and angrily: What do you want? The wife said to him in a low and fearful voice: Please open the door I want to talk to you, then decide what to do ... !! And after some thought from the husband, he opened the door to the room, only to find that his wife was sad and asked him to consult the Sheikh. Because she regrets all the regret she did, and she did not mean what she said. The husband replied: Do you regret what happened? The wife answered him in a broken voice: Yes, by God, I did not mean what I said, and I regret all the regret for what happened !! After that, the husband asked his wife to open the paper and look at what was inside to judge what she wanted. So she opened it and did not believe what her eyes saw, and she was overwhelmed with joy as she read the paper, so she stood to her husband and kissed his hands while weeping, tears splattered from her eyes and said with a burning sensation: By God, this debt is great; Because he made the infallibility in the man’s hand, and if he had made it in my own hands I would have divorced you 20 times.

Wednesday, September 2, 2020

September 02, 2020

The story of the soldier and the rich girl

A poor young man fell in love with a girl who belonged to a wealthy family, and he proposed to her to be engaged, but her family objected, claiming that he was less than them in wealth and pride, and they did not agree, but the young man insisted that he prove his worth to her parents, so he worked hard and progressed again and proved to her family that he is the right person and that he is able to make her happy, so they knew that the young man So my grandfather agreed to the engagement, but the marriage was postponed because he was a soldier in the army and he had to go to war with the rest of his colleagues, and they agreed to return after the war to complete the marriage. And one day the tragedy occurred; Where the girl was driving her car on the way home, and then she was hit by a speeding car, the girl’s family rushed to the hospital and the girl got out of danger, but when she woke up, she noticed signs of shock and shock on her family, and their silence continued with crying only, so she started asking them groaning and pain and felt her face, and she realized What happened, and she understood that her face had been disfigured as a result of the accident, so she burst into tears, and began to speak, saying: She became ugly, she became a monster and cried greatly.

the rich girl


The girl took control of herself, and she told her parents that she wanted to end her relationship with the soldier because he would not accept her while she was in this situation, and she made her decision and did not want to see him again and began to act according to what she had planned, except that he kept writing to her and calling her, but she did not answer any of that. He understood that she wanted to stay away from him and leave him forever, but one day a surprise occurred when her mother entered her while she was in her room saying: He has returned from the war. The girl was surprised, and refused to meet him even before she knew the reason for his sudden arrival.


 Her mother said to her: He came inviting you to attend his wedding, so she opened the wedding card in astonishment and found that the name of the bride written on the card was her name, and then she started crying again, and in the meantime the young man entered carrying a bouquet of roses and kneeled on his knees in front of her and said: Do you accept to marry me? So the girl covered her face and said: I am ugly and not beautiful, how will you relate to me, so he said to her: When you did not answer, you communicated with your mother and showed me your picture, in spite of that nothing changed in my heart towards you because I loved you, not your face.

 

September 02, 2020

I was pretty sure it wouldn't survive, but I didn't give up

Hodeidah, Yemen - “Mariah, fifteen-year-old, says of her sister Doaa,“ I couldn't believe that she was still alive until I saw her myself. ”


One-year-old Doaa was affected by complications from severe acute malnutrition, including pneumonia, but the closest clinic was an hour's chase away . Her father, Hussein, wasn't sure that his female child would survive until she reached the hospital.


Hussein recalls those moments, saying, "I was absolutely certain that she wouldn't survive, but I didn't hand over ." He adds that he had to borrow money just to urge his child to the treatment center.


I was absolutely certain it wouldn't survive, but I didn't hand over .


Doaa was one among thousands of youngsters affected by the foremost severe and most visible sorts of undernutrition in Yemen, because the conflict entered its fourth year and continued to cause heavy losses to families there. Almost 10 million people in Yemen suffer from severe hunger, while severe acute malnutrition affects 360,000 children under the age of 5 .


In particular, the suffering is most evident within the coastal city of Al Hudaydah. Continuous clashes, sharp price hikes and a scarcity of basic services have turned residents' lives into an unbearable hell, as families struggle to get affordable food.


The therapeutic feeding center, where she received a prayer of care, usually treats between 50 and 60 malnourished children with their mothers monthly , and it provides medicines for youngsters and meals for mothers freed from charge.


"When Doaa received the middle , we gave her medical treatment and gave her formula until her condition improved," said doctor, Diaa Al-Haq Al-Omari, who works at the middle . The doctor notes that the middle isn't only satisfied with providing nutrition to the youngsters in dire need of it, but also includes a health guide who is usually available to supply mothers with useful information like the way to prepare meals with the very best nutritional value possible.


The UNICEF-funded center and travel by the Taiba Foundation for Development takes care of the value of transporting patients to their homes also . This aspect is of utmost importance, because the value of renting a shared car or a taxi could also be prohibitive for several families, which also threatens the lives of youngsters and infants whose parents are completely unable to bring them to treatment facilities. Al-Omari warns that albeit the youngsters receive treatment, they and their families are still waging an arduous struggle thanks to the deteriorating conditions within the country.


Doaa is examined at a feeding center.

Al-Omari says: "It is true that we will provide treatment to anyone who comes here, but this may not be sufficient in the least ." The doctor adds that the dire economic conditions facing Doaa's family may cause great harm to the child's health within the future.


We are destitute, and nobody helps us


Hussein says that even before the conflict began, when prices for basic goods were more reasonable, he was struggling to form ends meet for his family. Now, four years later, Shaddad, the cash he makes from making the rope beds so fashionable locals is not any longer enough to hide the prices of feeding his family.


Hussein lives together with his mother, wife and youngsters during a small house made from mud and straw in Hodeidah. The family decorated the walls of the house with some drawings, although it'd collapse at any time if it rained.


wouldn't survive



Hussein's mother says, "My son works hard to support us. But, there's no trick." "We are destitute, and nobody helps us, she concludes with great heartburn.


Doaa's grandmother lives with the family during a shared house with three other families.

Doaa's mother, Zahra, is additionally affected by health problems. She had to sell her jewelry to buy the treatment. With the eagerness of the mother who forgets the pain ahead of the happiness of her children, Zahra expressed her happiness that Duaa has been in healthiness since returning home because of the treatment she received.


She says, I didn't think Doaa would click alive. But the doctors at the treatment center gave her the drugs and baby formula that she needed, so she is doing well now.


Hussein says:It is enough on behalf of me to ascertain my daughter who came home alive, laughing and therefore the smile never left her lips.

Doaa sits reception together with her parents in Hodeidah, Yemen.

September 02, 2020

Gordon Spence, one of the fools who adore their A Fords

 Gordon Spence toggles a lever beside the steering wheel that retards the spark and prevents damage to the starter. He presses down the manual throttle control, spins the choke rod one full turn to the left to get a rich fuel mixture, turns on the gas valve, flips the ignition key to on and pulls back on the choke. Then he taps the starter with his foot.


And his 1931 deluxe roadster Model A Ford, the same one his dad had driven to school as a teacher in Springfield, Mass., the same one he had driven with balloon tires as a teenager on the beach at Cape Cod; yes, this lovingly restored gem of a car, roars to life once again.
And we’re off – well, not without more adjustments, but it’s all second nature by now and you hardly notice – rambling through the Chubb Lake neighborhood of Chick’s Beach, the car, lovingly nicknamed “Damn Yankee,” informing Spence, by its engine sound, when to shift from first to second to third gear.

Neighbors wave, workmen on the road stop and gape, drivers honk – and he responds with a tap on the horn. Ah-oo-ga!
Spence is one of 80 members of the Cape Henry Model A Ford Club who are dedicated to the preservation and enjoyment of the once enormously popular automobile. You might have seen them recently at the Veterans’ Day Parade or the Oceanfront Christmas Parade.

Gordon Spence



These “like-minded fools,” as he affectionately calls his friends, celebrate a car that, even at the dawn of the Great Depression, made a fortune for Henry Ford, with nearly 5 million cars produced from 1928 to 1931. There were over a dozen body styles, from roadsters to sedans to coupes to pickups. They were inexpensive and easy to maintain and so durable that they’ve hung around all these years.
Like so many others here, Spence came here with the Navy. If you didn’t know, you might guess by the Seabee sticker on the rectangular windshield. He did a tour in Vietnam, worked as a civil engineer for the Navy and settled at the Beach. When his father passed away he inherited “Damn Yankee,” brought it here and proudly restored it.
 
We cruise through the winding, live-oak-draped streets in Chick’s Beach. Spence double clutches as he downshifts, never once grinding gears, tooling along Pleasure House Road, using hand signals for turns.

His father, also Gorden, had as many of five of the Model A’s, so he was surrounded by those cars, their sound and smell, from the time he was 14 on. In fact, the son’s first car was a Model A pickup.
 “I think a lot about my dad,” Spence says as we cross Shore Drive. “You had to be a bit of a character, which I guess he enjoyed, always driving with his hat brim up and a cigar in his mouth. Getting in the car, as my wife says, I feel his presence here.”

Some more waves. “You get a little self-conscious, initially, but you get used to it. You get a car like this and all of a sudden you take on a different aura. I’ve thought about making up a sign saying, ‘Don’t laugh, your mother might be in here.’”
We turn onto Thoroughgood Drive and pull over. An admiring Leroy Cason steps from his house and comes over for a look and a chat. “What model is she?” When was she made?” “Boy, she’s a real looker!”

And then the moment I’ve been waiting for.
I have to kind of shoehorn myself into the driver’s seat because the compartment’s tight and there isn’t much legroom. Fortunately, I don’t have to start it. It’s idling nicely and the flat-head, four-cylinder, 40 hp engine is humming contentedly.

OK, adjust the little rear-view, wait for a car to pass, depress the clutch, shift down into first, give it a little gas and the durable, forgiving 82-year- old car moves forward, somewhere between easing and lurching.
I notice right away how stiff the wheel is without power steering. That’s fine. You quickly get used to it. And hand-signaling, too. But grinding gears? Ouch! Sorry.

“So how am I doing?”
“I’m just saying, with the owner of the car sitting beside you, you’re under some pressure,” he says. “You grind the gears you know he’s going to give you the evil eye. But you’re doing… [slight grinding sound as I downshift]. . . fine.”

Like “Damn Yankee,” he’s very, very forgiving.

Tuesday, September 1, 2020

September 01, 2020

Battle of Craney Island

September 01, 2020

Princess Anne County

Would you believe it’s been 50 years since Princess Anne County went out of existence? That, on the stroke of midnight, Dec. 31, 1962, the name that had endured for centuries was discarded in favor of what was to be called the world’s largest resort city, Virginia Beach?

And that on the same tick of the clock, Norfolk County, what was left of the vast, mostly rural countryside sprawling all the way to the North Carolina line, combined with the small city of South Norfolk, suddenly became Chesapeake?


Princess Anne County



These instant cities were born not because they had reached a critical mass of people. Instead, as this newspaper editorialized at the time, their creations were moves “on the metropolitan checkerboard” to thwart heavyhanded annexation suits by Norfolk and Portsmouth. Public votes in favor of the mergers were resounding.

But it must have been strange, going to bed in one place and waking up in another.

Fifty years ago . . . .

I haven’t been here that long. Just two decades, in fact. And a lot of you know more about old Virginia Beach and old Chesapeake than I. But here’s a few things I’ve learned.

For one thing there were probably more general stores, where you could get everything you needed and conversation at the same time – over potbelly stoves, I’ll bet – than shopping centers. And maybe more moonshine stills than churches.

There were mostly farm fields, and lots of swampy low lands, with ruler-straight two-lane roads that were perfect as drag strips. Think old Princess Anne Road. They were also handy for escaping from state and federal revenue agents. Did I mention illegal whiskey? Old Norfolk County was once thought to be a bootlegger’s paradise.

Princess




But there was also the beginning of a population explosion. Soldiers and sailors returning from World War II and the Korean War were, with their families, buying up homes in new subdivisions. In the New Year’s Eve paper, developers of King’s Grant neighborhood, not far from the near the new Princess Anne High School, were touting new split-level homes for $21,750 “and up.”

There was no longer passenger train service to the Beach. But you could still take a ferry from Little Creek to Kiptopeke.

If you didn’t have a New Year’s Eve party to go to, you could see Elvis Presley as “Kid Gallahad” at the Shore Drive-in Theater. Or Walt Disney’s “Lady and the Tramp” at the Grand in South Norfolk.

You could also just stay home and be thankful we weren’t in a war, at least not then. Headlines in those late December days told of amphibious ships returning from blockade duty off Cuba. The missile crisis was over.

Most of the big bands had gone from the Oceanfront hotels, it seems, but little bands were taking their place. In mid-summer you could hear the Chesapeake Bay Bearcats, a Dixieland band, at the Surfrider at 4th and Atlantic. And you could go roller skating at the Virginia Beach Civic Center.

From what I can gather, some in Princess Anne County were sad to see that graceful old name go. Many older Beach residents still say they live there.

But I can’t say I’d blame Norfolk County and South Norfolk for wanting a change. Just think: Old Norfolk County, which had nothing to do with the city of Norfolk, had its county seat and courthouse in Portsmouth! It hurts my head to explain that.

Furthermore, South Norfolk, a relative new city in the shadow of its northern namesake, was being threatened by annexation lawsuits which, if successful, would have left it surrounded by – Norfolk. That’s right. Big Brother was about to swallow Little Brother. The sound of people rushing to the polls to consolidate – and later change the name to Chesapeake – must have been thunderous
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Well, belatedly, happy birthday, Virginia Beach; happy birthday, Chesapeake. Now if we could just figure out what to call all of these separate cities. . . .

Next week: a modest suggestion. 

Sunday, August 30, 2020

August 30, 2020

The river has stories to tell

 A few Sunday mornings ago, while navigating the Southern Branch of the Elizabeth River in a small sailboat, we passed under a raised Gilmerton Bridge and recounted the story of its namesake, Thomas Gilmer, a short-lived, pre-Civil War governor who died in a shipboard explosion.

The river



Now, about six miles later, we crept up on one of the most historic waterway sites in the country, the Great Bridge Lock and Great Bridge Bridge, a double dose of history that helped define who we are.
Even the intrepid boundary surveyor William Byrd recognized the need for a canal linking North Carolina and Virginia when he helped map the swampy border in 1728. A canal between the two still-British colonies was vital to commerce, he reasoned. But it wasn’t until almost 50 years later that surveys were made, and then a major disruption, war with England, intervened.

There was then a series of bridges across some 360 yards of marsh land, and the largest of these was called the Great Bridge. Thus the name for a  small village that sprang up nearby.
The British realized how important the lifeline was and in late 1775 set up a crude stockade – “hog pen,” some called it – from which they would stifle these upstart patriots and shut down their flow of goods. In the muddy swamp just off Battlefield Boulevard, archaeologists have found 18th century stoneware, pipes and musket balls where the stockade existed.

historic waterway



Then, in early December, under the direction of Lord Dunmore, the last royal governor of Virginia, elite troops marched across the bridge into a waiting slaughter.
American militia from as far away as Culpepper and North Carolina had set up breastworks on the south side of the bridge. John Marshall, a young lieutenant who would one day become chief justice of the Supreme Court, was among them. They held their fire until the redcoats were almost upon them and then methodically cut them down. There’s an old churchyard nearby where many of the bodies were buried. On the north bank of the canal, just past the present bridge, the foundations for the planned Great Bridge Battlefield and Waterways Historic Park and Visitor Center can be found.

The battle of Great Bridge was the first land engagement of the Revolutionary War in Virginia. Dunmore fled to Norfolk and then, after shelling the city, set sail for Gwynn’s Island on the Chesapeake and, ultimately, England. The despised Brit had met his comeuppance.
Again, the idea of a canal surfaced. But instead of connecting the South Branch with the North Landing River – the present Albemarle and Chesapeake Canal – another route cutting through the Great Dismal Swamp to Elizabeth City was begun and finished in 1805.


This route was shallow and tortuously long, and everyone knew the Albemarle alternative had to happen. But it was not until 1859 that a true mover and shaker, Marshall Parks Jr. (his father had built the stupendous Hygeia Hotel at Old Point Comfort) employed powerful new steam dredges to cut through a tangle of petrified tree stumps.
At the same time a wooden drawbridge was built and a double-gated lock was added to raise boats from the Southern Branch to the new cut – salt water to fresh water. And finally, the A & C Canal was born. There’ve been many changes, including the present double lift Great Bridge Bridge.

And here we were, handing lines to the bridge tenders. In a few minutes, water at the far end of the huge chamber seemed to boil as valves were opened and maybe millions of gallons of water raised the water level several feet. The gates opened, ushering us into the lock park lined with bright red crape myrtles.

Soon, bells rang and bridge traffic came to a halt. We quietly apologized to all those Sunday morning church goers who now had to wait. It happened fast, though. The two spans of the bridge flew open, almost like a welcoming gesture, and we history travelers were in the canal.
By the way, a reader points out that the widowed and lonely President John Tyler was probably saved from death on the same shipboard explosion that killed Thomas Gilmer because he was chasing after an attractive New York heiress, below deck, I assume, when the gun blew up. See what stories the river reveals?
August 30, 2020

main Street Norfolk


biggest projects


I was scrolling through microfilm a couple of years ago, looking for Virginian-Pilot stories about one of the biggest projects ever in Hampton Roads, the development of Norfolk Naval Station in 1917. And I found a curious piece. Filed it away. Thought there’d never be an excuse to use it.

But there is, the recent story about Norfolk and usually rival sister cities getting together to discuss ways of sharing services. If that sounds familiar, here’s the echo:

GREATER NORFOLK NEW CITY’S NAME. It was the headline in the Pilot on July 4, 1917, followed by a subhead: Common Council Adopts Preliminary Ordinance Looking To Consolidation

What a radical thought: Norfolk actually taking the initiative to reach across the Elizabeth, apparently confident its sister city would jump on the idea.

There was even a five-member “consolidation committee,” with W. H. Sargeant, acting as chair.

“I believe we are nearer consolidation than ever before,” said the confident Mr. Sargeant. “I have strong assurances from some of the leading men of Portsmouth that they will favor the union of the two cities and I am hopeful that it can be accomplished.”

Yeah, right.

It was then boom time in old Norfolk. A decade past the Jamestown Exposition, the nation had just declared war on Germany. One of the headlines that day said American troops were already in Paris. “Vive les Americains,” the crowds cheered.

Those soldiers had probably come from Norfolk, already a major embarkation point. Thousands of troops were pouring into and out of the city. And construction was about to get underway at the exposition site at Sewell’s Point.

Another headline: JAMESTOWN WORK STARTS TOMORROW

“Work on a larger scale than has ever been undertaken in this section will start with a rush in the new Jamestown tomorrow morning,” the paper said. “Contracts for operations that will convert the old exposition site and Pine Beach into the greatest naval base on the continent have been signed.”

There were other distractions.

The Anti Saloon League was holding a convention in Virginia Beach to propose an amendment to the Virginia Constitution prohibiting the sale of alcohol products. This was just before national prohibition and the atmosphere must have been, shall we say, intoxicating. A chap named Garland Potter, a candidate for governor, was there seeking the league’s support. It didn’t help. Westmoreland Davis was elected that year.


amendment to the Virginia



At any rate, further mention of Greater Norfolk seems to completely disappear, at least it could not be found for weeks afterward. Maybe it was the name that turned Portsmouth off and caused it to drop like a hot (political) potato.

The issue has surfaced at least a few other times. In May 1983, ideas of a Hampton Roads megacity that might rival New York surfaced again, with the Pilot jumping on the bandwagon. “Imagine one city with more than a million residents, with a unified water system, one economic development program and one delegation voting as a bloc in the . . . legislature, and it becomes obvious why serious men and women entertained thoughts of a regional merger,” the editors said.

The editors did not identify the serious men and women.

And again, the silence was deafening. Things weren’t exactly booming then the way they were in 1917. In fact, wasn’t there a recession just a few years before? But it wasn’t deep enough or long enough, I guess.

Now, with belts tightening painfully, maybe the mother’s milk of politics – money – will at last bring some togetherness. Just don’t call it Greater Anything.

August 30, 2020

ruins of hampton

Before the last echoes of 2011 tremble and die out let me just say it was an amazing year, history-wise. Especially because of a war we solemnly observed while we modern folk watched another war come to a halt.

There were other highlights of the year for me, softer ones: a series of columns about a Portsmouth musician and would-be Hollywood starlet whose letters were found abandoned in an attic; another series about the four sisters who left intact a mansion that has become home to the Portsmouth Historical Society. And a simple tale about a man named Fentress who ran a general store and post office in old Norfolk County a century ago.

But always, always you come back to the 150th anniversary of that dreadful tragedy, the Civil War, and the fateful steps that were taken. For folks here in Hampton Roads the first drumbeats could be heard as early as January 1861 when the state legislature decided to call for a secession convention.

This region was dead set against it, and yet in Norfolk a local paper, the Southern Argus, was railing about northern aggression and applauding South Carolina for quitting the Union. A “Minute Man” organization had sprung up, claiming “the inalienable right to resist unconstitutional aggressions by the Federal Government.”

Elizabeth Curtis Wallace of Deep Creek, for one, was sick with worry.
“I am oppressed often with fearful forebodings, and indefinable apprehension that some dire calamity is about to overtake us as a family,” she wrote in her diary in late February.

The convention in Richmond had just begun, with all of the states in the upper South watching. For months it appeared Virginia would vote against parting with the Union, and in fact in early April the first vote went down to defeat two-to-one, with both Norfolk delegates joining the opposition.

But then on April 12, the Confederate batteries opened fire on Ft. Sumter in Charleston Harbor. The nation was at war, but, still, if President Lincoln hadn’t ordered the southern states to help raise an army to put down the rebellion it might have been a different story. The Richmond convention reconvened and this time voted overwhelmingly to secede.




That was the thunderclap that shook loose the foundations of the Old Dominion. As I wrote in May, delegates from the counties beyond the Appalachians – they were all part of the sprawling state – marched out of the convention hall, vowing to form a new government that was loyal to the Union.

“We are determined to live under a State Government in the United States of America and under the Constitution of the United States,” one of the loyalists said. “It will require stout hearts to execute this purpose; it will require men of courage.”

At first, a reorganized government was formed, claiming to be the only legitimate one, and President Lincoln recognized it. So at that point there were two Virginias, one a part of the Confederacy, another part of the United States. This lasted only briefly. The leaders of the “New Virginia” hammered out details for more than a year and then, in 1863, West-by-God-Virginia was created.

In August the unthinkable happened. Confederate soldiers faned out through historic Hampton and set fire to virtually every building in sight, leaving, in the view of one observer, ”a forest of bleak sided chimneys and walls of brick houses tottering and cooling in the wind, scorched and seared trees and heaps of smoldering ruins. . . .”

The Pilot quoted extensively from letters and diaries written by both northern and southern soldiers, many full of bravado at first.

But after hundreds of miles of marching, after wet, miserable winter days and incessant fighting, the stark reality – and brutality – of war comes through in diary entries of George Ferebee, a Princess Anne County farmer.
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“The ground is thickly strewn with bleeding, dead-and-dying,” he wrote after heavy fighting in July 1864. It was just days after his 30the birthday.

Lastly, I wrote about a collector who had come across photographs of Gen. Robert E. Lee and Confederate President Jeff Davis, taken after the war. Both looked gaunt and careworn as they neared the end of their days, the fire in their expressions long since gone out.

These are oldies – but not-really-goodies – from last year’s time machine. Bring it on, 2012.


Photo. Hampton after it was burned to a crisp in August 1861. Library of Congress. 

Saturday, August 29, 2020

August 29, 2020

It’s hard to realize how different things were

 



It was 1940 and Frank Sinatra and Tommy Dorsey often performed at the Cavalier Beach Club and the Surf Club at the Oceanfront. Young people could go to the Beach almost any night of the week and listen to the big bands playing at the boardwalk night spots. And, like Sinatra, get away from it all.

But in Norfolk there was no escaping the war that was about to engulf the country. A young teenager watched as more than 100,000 sailors began pouring into the city and changing it, fast, from reputable to disreputable.

“It was a pretty seamy place,” says Brad Tazewell, who grew up on Pembroke Avenue in Ghent. “Main Street had some of the country’s finest brothels and certainly some of the finest and seediest bars, and my father thought this was probably not a good place for a 14-year-old to grow up in with all those things going on.”

Tazewell was sent away to a private school in Alexandria. Then, three years later, like almost everyone else he knew, he went to war.


different things were



Maybe it wasn’t because of the heat in Texas where he trained, but Tazewell soon decided to apply for a position with what would become the famed 10th Mountain Division’s Ski Troops. After training in Colorado, they sailed for Italy in December 1944 and soon found themselves snowshoeing up treacherous hills against Nazi troops.

In a series of daring assaults, the division pushed the Germans back, but at a cost of heavy casualties.

“I was a radio operator, which was a mixed blessing,” says Tazewell. “The good side was you always knew what was going on. The bad side was you had to carry this radio in a backpack, which weighed about 25 pounds. You were always right next to the company commander, and in World War II they all had their insignia painted on the front of their helmets.
The commander was usually up front – we’d go on patrol and we’d often get shot at. In fact I had two company commanders get shot right next to me.”

They began a major assault on April 13, 1945 – the day after President Roosevelt died – and on that day, as they advanced up a hill, a machine gun opened up on them, killing the commander and a nearby sergeant.

Tazewell, now 85, is sitting in a conference room at Clark Nexsen, an architecture and engineering firm in Norfolk, wearing a crisp blue shirt and UVA tie. He points to his left arm near the elbow.

“I got shot in the arm and the hip. I was lucky that the people that picked me up turned out to be from MCV [Medical College of Virginia]. They patched me up in a field hospital and I went home in a hospital ship.”

Tazewell was back in the states still recovering from his wounds when the war ended and got home shortly after VE (Victory in Europe) Day.

He went to the University of Virginia under the GI Bill and would become one of the most prominent architects in the region, helping change the look of that once seedy place.

Sailors celebrating VJ Day on Granby Street in 1945.